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Today's topic is communication around reading your romantic partners thoughts or energy.
Did you know>?:
*Anxiety can block your intuition and created unnecessary insecurity.
*Being so focused on where "they" are versus staying connected to your authenticity can create a block the growth of your relationship.
*Jealousy erodes trust, which when lost is challenging to regain.
*Needing to be in a relationship versus choosing to be in one from a healthy place (as in :"it would be super to have someone to spend time with:.
*Guilt, shame, blame and the need to be right are all relationship neutralizers.
*Closure comes from YOU, not from the person that has hurt you.
*Forgiveness leads to healing or reigniting a relationship.
AND THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT?
Your romantic partner cannot read your mind!
Yes in order for things to be clear having positive face-to-face communications where you can see their emotional state as you talk.
To share your feelings! (And we are not talking emoji's here)
I am so happy to see you!I feel sad about a disagreement I had with my best friend.
I am excited for our vacation together.
I love trust, and respect you.
I believe in you I believe in me, I believe in us,.
I want to talk/ share something important to me.
To me, communication is....____________________________ (fill in the blank!).
They won't know unless you tell them what resonates with you!Being faithful to me means... (not flirting with other people, being friends with your exes, etcetera) They won't know unless you tell them!
The idea here is to share from a place of unconditional love to build synchronicity so that your relationship can open the portals to you growth as individual and as a couple.
Then there is communicating with your families and friends:Remember the importance of standing up for each other, and for your relationship.
Do not share the private and personal aspects with other people, unless you want them in the middle of your relationship! It is not uncommon to have people insert their unsolicited advice, they in their own way, feel that they are being loving and caring. Thank them for caring and sharing, and leave it at that.
The complication of workplace (or dual) relationships:
IF you work for the same company or business, or own a business together, please DO have a firm line between work and home. Once the lines start to blur, it can be challenging to redefine them. Have the agreement that you will have be able to divide the two for the sake of your success as a couple and your careers.
We have a saying in my home: It is all about the love (as in unconditional love, forgiveness, kindness courtesy, and consideration)
I love you and I believe in you!
Right now, today, this moment, you start anew! Make every moment count <3
In Divine Truth and Love,