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Part of six: Keeping it Real, moving past the Bullshittery

2/2/2021

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Ready. Set. DATE!: How to make your dating profile pop!

11/28/2020

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Bright Greetings Dear Ones.
Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a pleasure to connect with you.
Happy Holidays to your and yours from all of us at Spirit Blossoms Psychics.

Swipe left or swipe right?  These are two of the basic choices you have for app dating.  You can now date "on the go" for lunch, dinner date, or Covid safe meet-and-greet.

Knowing what to write in your profile or even what to write to attract the right level of relationship you are seeking is challenging.
Adding profile pictures even more tricky!

LET'S START WITH HOW YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF:
Let's face it!  You may need some assistance from your successful dating or married friends. Asking for the best aspects of your personality can be immensely helpful in knowing how to talk about yourself.   Remember, that less can be more, you want to have that air of mystery, but reveal enough that those viewing you will want to talk to you and explore who you are in more depth.

This is not your resume!  You are not applying for a job, you are looking for companionship, a relationship, or even someone with whom you can spend the holidays.  List your education, and pertinent details in facts, not in your profile paragraph.  

Be appropriate for the level of connection you are seeking.  If what you are asking for is companionship with physical benefits and not a strong emotional connection, keep it light, fun, and playful.  Be aware that if you DO start to cultivate feelings, that you have set the foundation as more of a friends-with-benefits.  It would take time to change the energy between for something more serious,

If you are looking for marriage, ask your happily married friends to help you express your profile information.  Be clear that you are looking for Mr./Ms. right to spend the rest of your life with, rather than the end goal of being married to whomever you find that comes reasonably close to what you want in a mate.  If you are looking just to be married, with a lack of focus, you are likely to attract people that are unable to offer you what you really desire. Please be clear of your religious beliefs as well as that will help you to automatically rule out anyone that does not mesh spiritually.  Please refrain from mentioning if you want kids, as you may find that you lose a lot of traffic to your profile.  

Keep your kids and divorce out!  You will have plenty of time to share this with someone.  This is not the PTA, this is a dating profile. You are an eligible single ready for love, ready to date, and testing the waters of romance.  There is plenty of time to talk about kids and to answer questions about previous marriages or pairings.

Do mention one thing that will make you stand out!  I climbed K2 in 2016 or I have been riding horses since I was a child. Something that will show your personality.

Please be honest about your age. 



NOW ONTO YOUR PICTURES:
Please refrain from:
Bathroom Photos
Pictures with your kids
Photos with your guy/gal pals
Professional pictures with you in a suit or business attire
Your wedding picture with you in your tux or wedding gown (yes! it does happen!)
Pictures where you are showing too much skin. A little mystery is good!
Cheesy selfies in front of million-dollar cars or houses.  (Do you want to be liked for you, or your possessions/money?)
Make a peace sign or looking like a player. Even if you ARE looking for a simple hook-up, it turns viewers off. (I have heard this countless times from you!)
Pictures older than 12 months. You want your date to recognize you when you meet!

Pictures that percolate!:
Wearing colors that bring out your vibrancy and your natural energy.
Have your picture professionally taken (if at all possible). 
If you want to attract companionship and more of a physical connection full-body pictures are okay. If you want to attract a marital or long-term committed pairing, from the waist up.
Do show pictures of yourself with sunset and sunrises, and frame yourself romantically. Show them your inner radiance.
Less is more, light on the jewelry!  Pick a statement piece to represent you.  
Which is your best side?  Yes, there is a difference!  Make sure that you are photographing the side that is the most photogenic.
Smile with your eyes and you will look natural rather than posed with a fake smile.

Okay dear ones!  Ready, set, date!  You will find the romantic partners you attract give you a much better dating base,.


Thank you for this time together.

I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Truth and Love,
Razzi





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Family Feud: Coping with challenging in-laws.

10/17/2020

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Bright Greetings,
Welcome to my new and returning readers.  It is a joy connecting with you. Thank you for liking, sharing, and favoring.

I received this letter and have modified to conceal the person's identity.  

Dear Garden Oracle,
I have an issue that I am not sure how to resolve. My sister-in-law and I have not gotten along since day one, we could not be any more different.  She has friended, unfriended, blocked, and unblocked me for years on social media.  I have wanted to block her for years, as she will use anything to bully or pick a fight. My brother-in-law is a gentleman and not a game player.  She considers herself the queen bee, is the first daughter-in-law, and is vindictive and harsh if she does not like you.  Recently, she sent me a message asking me something and it came out of the left field.  I answered no, enquiring about her and her husband.  No response. Okay, I set it aside.  I shared with my spouse that she had unfriended me, sent me this odd message, and they were of no real support other than asking "what have you done now?'  Clearly, I am on my own here.  She intimidates everyone in the family.
I would have blocked her years ago if I had felt that it would not create a negative ripple for my spouse.  I have blocked her on everything now, including my phone.  I wish that I never had to talk to, see her, or interact with her again. I would never have chosen to have her in my life. For years now, I have kept my mouth shut, put up with her uppity attitude, and her trivializing my children and me.  My kids will not relate to her at all now.

The holidays are nearly here, and I dread having to see her, deal with her, or having her create a SCENE at a family function.  I live several hours from her, so if I do go to a gathering, and have to leave, my spouse is put in a very awkward position.
This is the same family that has in nearly 20 years, failed to acknowledge a birthday for me, yet they get a card and a gift from my family every year.
What can I do?
Sick of the Game Playing


Dear SGM,
Thank you for your letter.  I empathize with your situation and thank you for permitting me to publish it.
You are not alone.  I have worked with countless clients with the same familial issue.  When I am working in the capacity of the officiant, I make the strong point of letting the couple know that their families are marrying, not just the two of them,
You cannot choose your in-laws, it can be such a roll-of-the-dice.  Find comfort in the people that you find resonance, and be cordial to the in-laws that you feel shacked to for life.  

Firstly, remember that you love your spouse.  This is the worse part of the vows.  Even though they have left you out in the cold and on your own here (that is a different topic for another day!), detach from what has happened.  Focus on the health of your marriage, rather than the very interfering and destructive sister-in-law.

Secondly. this may seem harsh, but don't attend gatherings where she will be unless you have a discussion with your spouse. You want to have someone to run interference.  The pandemic has ruled out large family gatherings for at least another 2 years, and that would be the only circumstance in which I would recommend you attend for a short period of time.

Thirdly, please let this stay with you.  Do not make your in-laws have to choose between you and her.  While the two of you will likely never mesh, do not break up the entire family because of this. More than likely, you are the one out in the cold, as she has been in this family much longer than you.

Lastly, forgive her. I can already hear your mind whirring, "she needs to ask my forgiveness!"  Sorry love, you need to forgive her as this sets you free.  She harbors animosity for you for whatever reason, that ruins the quality of her life.  When you forgive, you are freed from this toxic connection. As I stated earlier, the issue with your spouse not having your back is a deeper problem.
There is no traction or demonstration regarding the support that you need.  It is your spouse's role to speak up for you with their family, not yours.  You stand up to your family, not your spouse. It is time to assess your marriage, for if support does not show up with this extended family issue, then you are not getting much support at all.  

It is time to repair your marriage!  I do suggest finding a qualified couples therapist to help the two of you navigate the challenges you have been experiencing.  It is of the utmost importance that you have each other's backs, or you are very likely to become little more than roommates.

Thank you for shedding light on this topic, you are not alone.

Have a question for Ask the Garden Oracle? Please fill out the contact form on the website with your question.  Please note:
Your letter may be published with modifications to protect your identity.  I will let you know when it is being published.  You agree by submitting your question to have your letter published.

In Divine Truth and Love,
Razzi
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Working with the Mentally Ill as a Psychic or Intuitive

9/23/2019

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Bright Greetings,
Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you. Thank you for liking, sharing, following, and subscribing.

If you are a psychic or intuitive, the majority of your calls and readings will be positive and sincere individuals, open to what you see, feel, and sense. This is where I set my filters each day, but occasionally one slips through the shield.
When you are working with someone that is mentally ill, there is a tendency for them to bombard you with questions, asking only for "yes that is correct" or "no, it is not."  
I have had clients that actually argue with what is being shared, being determined that above all THEY MUST BE RIGHT.

Over the years I have had clients with ​Dissociative identity disorder (DID), one of them having 12 different personas. They each had a different name, unique personality, and different careers, and ages.  One in particular, had one personality pay for the reading, while a different identity did the reading.  Each had their own list of concerns.  
I have had one client with 
schizoaffective disorder, one that was rapid cycle bipolar, and some with grandiose delusions  I have not counted the Narcissists yet, of which there have been many.

The key and most critical element here is to hold a firm boundary.  Start and end your calls on time. There is the attempt to pull you into extra time.  Let them know 5 minutes ahead of time when you session will expire.  Add them to a list, and schedule them when you are feeling strong, fresh, and able to hold that healthy boundary.  Do not be drawn into tales of woe and unhappiness, much of this they brought about on their own.  More often than not, their reason for calling in pertains to being locked out of the lives of former friends, and family held hostage.  Most certainly, they are off their medications!  
Do not be drawn into their dramas or delusions, for there are many!  She did this to me, or he did that, or I got fired over nothing!  It is, of course, never their fault, they cannot help being the way they are, people just don't love them or want to understand them.  You could just as easily be drawn into their circle of blame, shame, guilt, and "it was your fault for not telling me the truth!"  

They come with their own agenda, so tread lightly, and answer only what they ask and no more.  
DO send out unconditional love and ask for protection from your Guides, Angels, Guardians, Ancestors, and Allies.
Ask that they have protection from themselves as well, and that the people around them could find a way to forgive them, and offer support in the way that was healthiest for all concerned.

Please note, that if anyone gets abusive with you during a reading, that after a fair warning, you have the right to disconnect with no possibility of return.  Be strong enough to make this decision when the circumstances call for it. If you are working for a Psychic business that does NOT have your back, stand your ground for the length of time purchased, and remember to not react negatively during the session.  Do not give them anything that could be reported back in a negative way regarding the reading. 

If you would like a name of companies that I would recommend working for, that do have their readers' backs, I am happy to relay this to you in a non-recorded phone call.  There are legal issues that I must be mindful of in advising you.
It is based on direct feedback from actual experience from psychics that I know and have worked with.  You would be surprised who tops the list!

I love my work and all of my clients, but when it comes to the challenges?   It is a good exercise in holding a healthy boundary and offering real and unconditional love and empathy.  

Remember that setting your intention each day helps to keep you grounded regardless of whom comes across your day. 
Take each reading as it comes, then fully disconnect.

Thank you for sharing this time together.  
I love you and I believe in you.

Remember, It's all about the LOVE.

In Divine Truth and Love,
Razzi <3







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Crystal for Healing and Inspiration

9/9/2019

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​Bright Greetings,
Welcome to my new and returning readings. Thank you for subscribing and sharing my blogs.  It is a joy to share sacred space with you. One of my passions in life is working with crystals. 

I have been rock hounding since I was a kid, and the child in me still finds them fascinating.  I have a dog that is a rock hound as well, she brings me rocks to add to me crystal altars in my office.  Our shared interest is one of the many things that I love about her.  

You are aware of the divas of the crystal world, Amethyst, Emerald, Garnet, Fluorite, and lovely Rutilated Quartz.

Some of my favorites, though, are inauspiciously dressed in brown, black and dull reds, but have amazing healing properties.  I use them in my healing practice and have used them for my own health and well being for over 50 years.  

Willemite:  Discovered in 1830 and name after William I of the Netherlands, this zinc silicate mineral, with red and brown rhombohedral crystals (think of a 3 dimensional cube at an angle), is one of the category of crystal that fluoresces under short wave UV light. It is used in some top shelf mineral makeups for it fluorescing qualities. It is often found in matrix with Zincite, Franklinite, and Orbicular calcite. You can carry a small specimen with you or simply place it on your office desk.  Going for a job interview? Place it in your purse or briefcase to help ease you nerves. It comes in more than 4 forms and colors.

Here are a few of it's healing properties:
Clears creative blocks for writers and artists
Renews lost relationships OR brings healing closure to them
Helps to connect to the astral plane for psychic intuition cultivation
Eases nerves and stress
Helps to alleviate addiction issues

Aragonite:   Aragonite is a calcium carbonate and it is created from fresh and salt water precipitation.  Finding it near bodies of water is quite common.  It is Orthorombic (a rectangular prism), and it comes in many different forms.  It is a reddish brown, and a strong healer. Dull rather than shiny due to the striations from the twin interior access. I have an Aragonite sphere in my office, and it is offers a supportive, grounding energy.  If you are going through a divorce, or you are in transition from a stressful job to a healthy work situation, inauspicious Aragonite can help you. This also have fluorescing properties under short wave UV lights.  Wear it in a ring, or carry as a pocket stone to assist you in feeling grounded in any situation.  Meeting your future in laws for the first time?  Wear an aragonite pendant to make it a low stress meeting.

Here are a few of it's healing properties:
Alleviates environmental stress
Supports the lower 3 chakras
Supports in stressful home and work situations.
Assists in easing transitions.
Brings out the truth in any situation (radionic)

Snowflake Obsidian:
This is a silicon dioxide, with with white inclusions.  Thus, looking like snowflakes!  It was first discovered in Ethiopia by Obsius, 77 AD (he was a Roman Emporer). It is widely seen in Mesoamerica  in the form of arrowheads.This is a volcanic crystal, igneous, which is produced when lava from an volcanic eruption is forced through small small spaces in rock and flows into water, going through a chemical metamorphasis (composed of magnesium and iron). Since it is derived from lava flow, it forms in sheets of glass-like substance. Differentiating Obsidian  from other crystals that over time, form as crystals.The lake bed where I go in Oregon to see it, is in the formation of an obsidian basin, as it coated the lower surface of the lake, creating a beautiful black sheen. (it is illegal in most areas to take obsidian, so be sure to purchase mineral rights for the day, and get permission for specific areas!) There are many distinct colors of obsidian, one of the most beautiful being green. Please be careful as the edges on Obsidian can be quite sharp and in some cases, cut your skin (in it's non tumbled form)  Wear in the form of jewelry or place a specimen in the central part of your home, along with a Himalayan salt lamp to keep you home loving, pure, and positively charged.  Great to have where there is heavy traffic with children and animals.

Here are a few of it's healing properties:
Grounding stone and associated with cleansing the environment
Especially calming to the 2nd and 4th chakras
Used to dispel negative Spiritual energy before it can take root.  If you already have an existing Spiritual issue, you will need to couple with black tourmaline or a crystal that rid your space of negative energy.
Brings any unhealthy or addictive issues to the forefront so you can work with them.

You and I are in alliance with the healing crystals and minerals in our world.  I find the structural and chemical properties remarkable.  I have a healthy respect, and in fact, awe, for the gifts of Mother Earth. Let us use her resources wisely, and ever in gratitude, offer that love back at every opportunity. Thank you for sharing this time together.   I love you and I believe in you. Like what you are reading?  Please share!  Let's keep the love going.

In Divine Love and Truth,
Razzi <3

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Making Friends with Change: Let your new life begin!

8/2/2019

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​Bright Greetings Dear Ones
Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a joy to connect with you!  Thank you for subscribing and sharing.  Please take a moment to SUBSCRIBE to my Youtube channel, too!
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Let's dive into the topic of CHANGE, the C word that so many of us dread.  For instance, you boyfriend or girlfriend talks to you about needing change in the relationship. If you are with the majority of readers, your mind skipped ahead to a negative outcome.  Change is often positive!  Chaos or change is the very nature of our world.  A trees loses it's leaves in the fall, and regains them in the spring. Bulbs in the ground go dormant until reawakened by the beginning of warm weather. Children grow from infancy to adulthood, with us celebrating their milestones!
Change is positive, for it is how you and I EVOLVE, grow, and thrive.  
Yet change is feared. You and I want things to stay the same, the status quo, predictable, consistent. 
But what if your life could be BETTER, more alive, more abundant, and more meaningful.
What if your friendships could be deeper and more fulfilling?
What is your career is thriving, growing, and developing?
What if you could go from dating to being engaged?
Or engaged to being married?
Or being married to having your first child?
Change is the Cosmic "what if" and is necessary. There is a season, and a time for everything and everyone.  We dance with the energy of the Universe, rather than fight it, stay in a constant state of retrograde (which we all know is tedious!).
As humans we long for change, upgrades, and living thriving and vibrant lives.
Make change your friend, and watch the magic unfold.
What if?????
In Divine Love, Truth, and Change,
Razzi <3



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The Imprinting of a Successful Marriage: Parents be mindful!

7/8/2019

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Bright Greetings Dear Ones
Welcome to my new and returning readers. Thank you for subscribing and sharing!  It is a tremendous blessing to connect with each of you. Please subscribe to my Youtube channel for healing insights, Angel Readings, and other life healing vlogs!
I was asked to write about what it is to be an amazing spouse.  Being a loving and supportive spouse starts when you and I are at the imprinting stage, from newborn to age 7.  All of the major imprinting for the type of relationships that we will have as adults (unless you and I do the deep work and reprogram) is learned from observing and being immersed in the energy of our family marriages and close relationships.  It is during this time that we accrue the following programming:
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1. What type of person you will attract:  Loving, supportive, difficult, manipulative, encouraging, patient, impatient.  You are programmed to attract a certain type of person as a romantic partner.
2. The type of relationship you will have:  You will replay and recreate the relationships that you experienced as a child whether healthy, abusive, toxic, and lovingly reciprocal.
3. How deeply you commit: Very few marriages that I have encountered are 100% committed.  It is what I have coined  "the 85% rule."
Simply interpreted, there is a holding back in the event that it does not work out, and so that it does not hurt so badly when things deteriorate.  If you have learned that love is 100% and that marriage is a loving and happy union, that is what you are programmed to recreate.
4. Whether you settle of hold to the ideal:  This is a complex programming chip!  Based on the statistics that I have personally graphed in thousands of readings, an admitted 70% of the population settles for what they think they can get versus holding true to their ideal.
When you settle, this becomes a reality that is harder and harder to maintain.  When you see other genuine couples, you realize how much you have lost in setting the bar too low for yourself.
5. Whether or not you will attract a cheating romantic partner: If you had one of your parents that cheated over the course of their marriage, even if you were not cognitively aware of it at the time, you are likely to attract a cheater OR be a cheater yourself.  The result is often the same, being divorced, possibly with multiple failed marriages under your belt.
6. How the household chores are distributed:  If Mom did all the cooking, cleaning, shopping, and daily "in the trenches" work, as a woman you are very likely to replicate this when you are married or in a committed partnership.  If Dad did nothing but work to support the family and was absent, as a man you can easily fall into this once you have kids.
So HOW do you reprogram, and take control of the script?
Let's look at how you consciously raise your kids:  
Mothers please raise your sons to be loving husbands, to be sensitive to their spouse, children, and teach them that it is OKAY to be emotionally mature.  When you assigning jobs around the house, have them do a rotation on a consistent basis of both male and female categorized chores.  Teach them how to cook, wash up after dinner, vacuum the carpet, mop the floor.   
For your daughters:  Make sure they know how to change the oil, mow the lawn, use power tools, in addition to the female gender stereotypical tasks.
By teaching your kids to break the gender barriers they have a better chance of happy relationships that if they are assigned to a limited set of tasks.  They say that Mother's love their sons and raise their daughters. Love you children equally, and give them each opportunities to discover who they are, their talents, abilities, preferences, and personalities.
Talk to you kids about how you know that you have met the "the one" rather than leaving it to google or a misguided friend.  Talk about the importance of having friends that are mature and support you in healthy relationships, rather than leading you down the path of "what he/she does not know won't hurt them." Talk about how having relationships as a couple with other loving couples enhances the joy you have with one another. Talk about the importance of knowing who they are FIRST before entering into a long term relationship or marriage.
Teach them to be responsible stewards of their money and resources, and to learn to be generous.  Please do talk about forgiveness, kindness, empathy, compassion, following through, and keeping their promises.  
Share the importance of taking vacations together, and building trust equity in a marriage or relationship.
And here is the most critical part:
SHOW THEM all of the above, so they fully hear, see, and understand what you mean.
If you and I want our children to see the demonstration of loving relationships, it is up to each of us to embody this by making the right choices, and sharing our love freely, without judgement, and with a great deal of consideration for the people, animals, and world in which we reside and share space.
Take responsibility as an adult, and do the deep work to reprogram your thinking and beliefs about marriage, family, and relationships. Work with a qualified therapist, counselor, life coach, or healer.  Be willing to look at your subconscious programming, and to shift that which has never served you. Perhaps you bring a healing component into your family tree, and facilitate change in an exponential way!
Thank you for this time together. It is a joy to connect with you.
I love you and I believe in you.
In Divine Love and Truth,
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Things I would tell my younger self: Coming of age lessons.

4/21/2019

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  Briight Greetings Dear Ones,
I had a dream in which i was able to look back on my life and see the mis-directions, which caused me unnecessary pain and loss.  I was able to see my motives for making these decisions, and pass it forward to my present and future self so as to make choices out of Wisdom.
I saw places where  I made decisions out of a fear of being alone. This is especially true with all of my friends (seemingly) happily paired. I know now that their real gift to each other was the ability to stay committed to one another and ride out the waves in their relationships.  When I see them now, joyfully paired after many years of being together, I think back to the moments when I gave up too soon, or lost faith because I wanted immediate change.  It was about emotional immaturity rather than proceeding with Divine trust and flow.
I saw where I could have been a better Mother and relaxed places, and tightened up a bit.  Of course, hind sight is always 20/20, but I do see where I could have been more edifying and loving, without being a doormat.
I see where I met the love of my life, and how he demonstrated his faith in love in me and in us.  He was taken all too soon with a massive stroke which left him 99% brain dead.  To this day, seeing the shell without the Soul and Spirit affects me, and I know the importance of value of saying I love You, and leaving things unexpressed.
I see that I was attracted to narcissistic romantic partners, which has been a 20+ year pursuit in helping to free other people from theirs (including why they are attracted to them).  Narcissists can be very charming in the beginning to hook you, but you end up as the supply, and having severe detrimental health issues.  It has taken real work to regain my health, and detaching emotionally from their energy.  
I have learned the value of friendship and how precious it is in later years.  The importance of having people in your life that know everything about you and still love you. This reciprocity makes the difference between a life of loneliness and a life fulfilled.  It is our loving friendships, both animal and human that define the beauty in life.
I would share with my younger self not to stress about finances, money is simply another currency.  I am at the helm of my abundance always, through my dedication to staying in the energy of light and love.  
I have learned that marriage is not necessarily for me, and that in fact, my soul contract in this lifetime did not include being married.  Committed yes, but not married.  To me, it was and is a form of enslavement that bothers me deeply.  I am and never will be the person that has matching workout clothes for the gym!  My true soulmate, Scotty, understood this about me, and that is why we worked so well.  He and I were and are free spirits where self expression is critical to our well being.
I have learned that I would have my kids all over again.  They still bring so much happiness and joy to my life, seeing them succeed, grow, and evolve, has been heart lifting.  I love my children, now adults, living full and meaningful lives.
I have learned that aging is positive, for with it comes deep Wisdom and a knowing of my true self worth.
Above all I have learned that after the degrees, education, zen retreats, and life experience, that in the end it is about love.  Deep, committed, unwavering, unconditional love and acceptance.  I have learned to forgive others and myself for the past, so that I can progress into a consistently joyful and authentic life. 
I have learned that I am deeply committed to the ethical treatment of our world, people, and animals.  My heart is so deeply connected to the ethical treatment of animals, that I donate my time and attention to the progression of these causes, and I adore them.
I have learned the importance of loving family, or what I call, the good, the bad, and the ugly.  They are blood and you will always be connected.  Make the most of it, love them despite some of the things that have occurred, and I love our history together.  Be loving and loyal, and do make time for each other.
I have learned that you cannot run from your problems that they will follow you until you "get it and wake up" to the deep self work that you need to do to evolve past them.  Some of these lessons have taken a lifetime, and I am still in the process of unraveling them, and setting myself free. It feels to me like nets that I am tangled up, and I am having to extricate myself a bit each day.  As I do this, though, I feel better, stronger, more joyful, and connected to my Divine Purpose for being here.
Then I find myself bumping into love again, where I feel the light around me, the support, assistance, and immense gratitude for the many gifts that I have in my life now.
Live each day with the abundance,and know Dear Ones, how deeply I love you and I believe in you.

In Divine Love and Truth,
Razzi <3
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Communication: Sharing versus reading each other's thoughts.

3/31/2019

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​Bright Greetings,
Thank you to my new and returning readers, it is joy to connect with you.  Thank you for liking, sharing and subscribing to my blog!
Today's topic is communication around reading your romantic partners thoughts or energy. 

Did you know>?:
*Anxiety can block your intuition and created unnecessary insecurity.
*Being so focused on where "they" are versus staying connected to your authenticity can create a block the growth of your relationship.
*Jealousy erodes trust, which when lost is challenging to regain.
*Needing to be in a relationship versus choosing to be in one from a healthy place (as in :"it would be super to have someone to spend time with:.
*Guilt, shame, blame and the need to be right are all relationship neutralizers.
*Closure comes from YOU, not from the person that has hurt you.
*Forgiveness leads to healing or reigniting a relationship.
AND THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT?
Your romantic partner cannot read your mind!
Yes in order for things to be clear having positive face-to-face communications where you can see their emotional state as you talk.

REMEMBER:
To share your feelings! (And we are not talking emoji's here)
I am so happy to see you!I feel sad about a disagreement I had with my best friend.
I am excited for our vacation together.
I love trust, and respect you.
I believe in you I believe in me, I believe in us,.
I want to talk/ share something important to me.
To me, communication is....____________________________ (fill in the blank!). 

They won't know unless you tell them what resonates with you!Being faithful to me means... (not flirting with other people, being friends with your exes, etcetera)  They won't know unless you tell them!
The idea here is to share from a place of unconditional love to build synchronicity so that your relationship can open the portals to you growth as individual and as a couple.
Then there is communicating with your families and friends:Remember the importance of standing up for each other, and for your relationship. 
Do not share the private and personal aspects with other people, unless you want them  in the middle of your relationship!  It is not uncommon to have people insert their unsolicited advice, they in their own way, feel that they are being loving and caring.  Thank them for caring and sharing, and leave it at that.  

The complication of workplace  (or dual) relationships:
IF you work for the same company or business, or own a business together, please DO have a firm line between work and home.  Once the lines start to blur, it can be challenging to redefine them.  Have the agreement that you will have be able to divide the two for the sake of your success as a couple and your careers. 
We have a saying in my home:  It is all about the love (as in unconditional love, forgiveness, kindness courtesy, and consideration)
I love you and I believe in you!
Right now, today, this moment, you start anew!  Make every moment count <3
In Divine Truth and Love, 
Razzi <3

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Your Evolving Psychic Gifts

3/5/2019

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Bright Greetings,
Welcome to my blog to all first timers and returning readers.  Thank you for liking, sharing, and following!  
One of the most frequently asked questions that I get when people are asking about being a psychic and developing their gifts is "how do you stay in flow and grow personally?"
Great question!   There is much more to it than simply being gifted.  Each of us is born with our intuition set to ON, but as you and I grow we are told what to think, given rote responses to address in academic testing, and how we are supposed to feel and act.  If you are blessed, your FOO (Family or Origin) will support your unique perspective and let you explore and discover your innate gifts and abilities.  All to often, we are expected to fit into a predetermined form, and as adults break free and become authentic as individuals.  
I discovered early on that I could see people that had crossed, and I was blessed to have a grandmother that helped me to understand and see it as a gift rather than a liability.
I recall at age 9, being at a friend's home for a birthday party.  They had a working ranch with horses, cows, goats, sheep, and chickens.  They had a beautiful vegetable garden as well, and I loved being there as I have a kinship with animals.  My friend and I were walking through the building connected to the barn, and I remember seeing a lamb that had recently passed.  She looked so peaceful, as if her spirit had been lifted from her body.  But I could feel her sadness at being ill, being confused, and not understanding what was happening to her.  I sat down with her and cried the tears that she could not, and offered her comfort.  This is one of the reasons that I have become certified in animal communication and healing, for her gentle spirit genuinely moved me. I wish I could have known her in life, but was glad to be there just after her passing to assist her in really moving forward in her soul's evolution.  Animals do not have to stay with the animal form in reincarnation, but often do so, as they want to return as the earth's healers.
I have been blessed to help a number of different animals cross.  One of the most amazing experiences that I have had was help a matriarch crow cross over.  I was driving near my home, and there were literally hundred of crows on fences, perched on power lines, and in the trees screaming.  I stopped the car, and there was the most beautiful crow, alive, but clearly near death.  I pulled my beach towel from my trunk and asked her if I could wrap her up and hold her, she consented.  I held her and I asked if she wanted to receive healing or to cross over.  She asked that I assist her in leaving her body with ease and peace.  I must mention that as soon as i picked her up, the crows, whom had been screaming, stopped, and it became eerily quiet.  I sat down with the crows in a circle above us, and held her until she passed.  I place her under the shelter of a tree where her family could come and honor her life one by one.  I could hear the "thank you" from her family as I had heard from her, and wept tears of joy at this unexpected connection.  
Staying in Divine Flow:
While you may have a gift, a gift unexplored or developed will not manifest to it's full and beautiful potential.  As an intuitive I study, and take regular continuing education coursework in psychology, PTSD,  C-PTSD, Trauma Recovery, mindfulness, energy healing, and am in the process of learning and evolving myself.  It is imperative to increase your knowledge, and learn to set judgement aside I am active in the healing community and offer a free 2 hour  Reiki class each month, and conduct Reiki healing circles to help others keep clear themselves.  The space is graciously donated to me by a local yoga clinic, and donations are accepted for local charities.
I have mindfulness exercises that are done daily, set goals both personal and professional, and have cleansing and self-care rituals built into my everyday schedule so that I remain a clear channel in my work.  
To be an intuitive means that it is important to come from a place of unconditional love and acceptance. This expansive heart energy is how we stay connected in Divine Flow, and offers a source of protection to us from negative energies or presences.  This can be a challenge sometimes and most often does come from the responsibilities of the home environment.  I can tell you, it is well worth the effort, for a peaceful, loving, and supportive home life is critical to being a psychic.  I am blessed to have a family that loves, supports, and even encourages me in my work!  
Making sure that you are getting enough sleep is important to keep yourself charged.  The emotional aspect of this work is a sacred responsibility, and one that I take seriously.  It is an honor to be working with each of you, and to hold sacred space for your healing.
Maintaining EMPATHY in all areas of your life as a psychic/intuitive/sensitive is critical.  For once the empathy begins to erode, so does unconditional love.  Offer empathy as much as you can, and notice how the energy changes for you.
Keep your relationships in healthy perspective as in, this is me, this is you.  Realize that as a psychic you will feel, see, and experience things from other's perspective, and it is critical to see it, share it, let it go.  This is especially true if you are working with negative spiritual forces and spirits that have crossed.  Unless you want to have a house full of spiritual energy attached to you, you must clear!  I smudge as needed, pray, and have protective icons from all belief systems around my home.  
Please be mindful for whom you have in your inner circle, for these people can greatly impact what you are attracting as a psychic.  I know this may sound harsh, but having needy, mean spirited, demanding people, or close friends with a victim mentality will drain you energetically and compromise your ability to be safe psychically (and physically).
Negative or high maintenance relationships do not have a place in your life if you want to represent that clear and healing presence in your work and life. The importance of learning to say NO, is more important than saying YES.  
Remember to step away from being a people pleaser!!  Stand by your healthy boundaries, and when you are given information from Spirit, offer it as verbatim as possible.  There will be points of validation that your client is needing.
Expect Psychic Scapegoats:  If you are in this work know that there will be people that will assign their ownership for their free will over to you.  When you encounter this, pray for them, send them love and understanding (for surely they are hurting), and let it go.  Being in this industry does mean that there are times when the person you are reading with will take out the negative feelings they have for someone in their life on you as they are unable to have closure or to clear feeling/emotions with the person with whom they are having the issues.  It is in working with these individuals (blame, shame, guilt, "that can't be right!") that defines your professionalism as a psychic.  In Buddihism, they are called Bodhisatvas, basically people that polish your life through friction (as in sandpaper!).  Please cleanse yourself of this energy before relating to friends or family, for this can leach into your personal life.
Doing this work you are likely to encounter people that are mentally ill.  As a psychic/intuitive/sensitive you can feel it before they call.  It is essential that you GROUND yourself, I do it to the center of the earth, to ride the waves of what can be disruptive energy.  Do send love and healing during the session, but remember, you have a defined energy field.  This is especially true in working with people that have schizophrenia or Multiple Personality Disorder. Realize that this is something that they were born with, and that sometimes the best they can do is to manage it.  Do not expect a normal interaction.  If you feel that you do not want to work with, nor do you feel up to the intensity of working with them, please do set that boundary for yourself and ask Spirit to send them to another reader.
There are so many nuances to this work, and having been in the field for 46 years, I have learned a tremendous amount in this time.  It is my passion and joy to have chosen this as my life path, and to be here for each and everyone of you.
If you are interested in becoming a psychic yourself and expanding upon your emerging gifts, I encourage you to enroll in coursework to become certified.  It helps you to develop in a well rounded manner as a reader, and to have balance between your personal and professional life.  Please do sign up for a program that covers the psychological perspective, for having an understanding of people's motives, and recognizing how to work with people (connect with them) is critical to you continuing to love your work. When psychics step away from their work, the number main reasons that I have heard mentioned is they have lost their empathy as well as their patience.  If you feel this happening, DO take time to clear your energy, and take a break.
Thank you for this time together, 
I love you and I believe in you.

Interested in enrolling in our Psychic Development Program?  Please give us a call! 1-877-448-6977!

In Divine Love and Truth,
Razzi <3
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