It is a joy to share this time with each of you. I send you love, encouragement, and empower you to rise to the best version of yourself.
I want to talk today about the importance of you being in the driver's seat of your life. There are two types of people:
Those who go along for the ride, and let others lead in their life decisions
Those who are mindful of the decisions they are making, and utilize the Wisdom they have attained to be successful.
Being in control of your life, means that you weigh your choices carefully, and that you see success as having given 100% energy to your endeavors. Being successful means that you are committing to a life of excellence.
You make the decisions in your life, life up to the commitments that you made freely, and you are discerning about what and whom you choose to say yes. Your yes counts, because you exercise your no with equal wisdom. You take the long way around because you know that short cuts rarely, if ever, lead to long term success. You have invested in knowledge, cultivating your intuition, and you care about the footprint you are leaving behind you.
You are selective about your friends, and only work with experts that include integrity in their business and personal lives. You are deeply private, but live a transparent life; you use your creativity to effectively problem solve. You do not fear, you excel and are able to look at life from all angles, giving you a boldness, and ingenuity that others will admire (but that does not drive you in any way, having their admiration).
You are in the Driver's Seat and behind the wheel. You know your destination, but have an internal GPS that guides you in the most illustrious direction. You are accountable for all of your actions, and only apologize when it is necessary. You do not believe in placating with "I am sorry" for that leads to the people around you not being accountable. You will not and do not support this, but are here to empower the people around you.
You are here to inspire, encourage, and to contribute, for abundance is not about the money, it is about making a difference.in your community and world. You take care of your body, and you have good mental hygiene. You do not let others tell you what to believe, you make these decisions on your own, after having looked at all the facts.
You are a winner and successful because you fully engage in your life and live a 360 degree approach to excellence. You know that your happiness is in your hands, and you never give it over to another's keeping. You know the value of empathy, compassion, and know that sympathy can lead to co-dependence of enabling others to not be the best.
You do not give away your secret sauce, but keep that component that makes you almost magical, to yourself. If you ever do pass your secret sauce along to another, you will do so mindfully, and to someone that will respect and regard it, making it their own as they continue their personal evolution.
I have done this work for 46 years, and in all this time, I have worked with people that are highly successful in their lives and work. The questions they don't ask: Why won't my boyfriend/girlfriend call me back? What can I do to get this person to love me? What do people like about me? Why am I getting bullied at work? Why can't I find a happy relationship? Why do I always get passed over for a raise? Why do I always attract people that treat me badly and break my heart?
Any questions that smack of insecurity of self doubt are excluded.
The questions I do get from successful people:
I have two publishers that have offered me contracts. Which one is best in the long run and why?
My child wants to apply to two out of state universities, which one would best serve them?
I am going to be traveling to meet with someone that wants to contract with me. Will this go well, and should I do business with them?
How am I doing on my spiritual path?
What can I do in my community that will be the most helpful?
I want to work in alliance with a charity, any suggestions?
I want to go back to school and get my Master's Degree. What is the right timing?
The difference is clear between people that are at the wheel of their own life and those that sit in the passengers seat hoping that they will go someplace they like and where they might be happy.
I hope that this has been helpful and that you feel inspired!
I love you and I believe in you.
In Divine Love and Truth,