Welcome to my new and returning readers. It is a pleasure to connect with you.
Happy Holidays to your and yours from all of us at Spirit Blossoms Psychics.
Swipe left or swipe right? These are two of the basic choices you have for app dating. You can now date "on the go" for lunch, dinner date, or Covid safe meet-and-greet.
Knowing what to write in your profile or even what to write to attract the right level of relationship you are seeking is challenging.
Adding profile pictures even more tricky!
LET'S START WITH HOW YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF:
Let's face it! You may need some assistance from your successful dating or married friends. Asking for the best aspects of your personality can be immensely helpful in knowing how to talk about yourself. Remember, that less can be more, you want to have that air of mystery, but reveal enough that those viewing you will want to talk to you and explore who you are in more depth.
This is not your resume! You are not applying for a job, you are looking for companionship, a relationship, or even someone with whom you can spend the holidays. List your education, and pertinent details in facts, not in your profile paragraph.
Be appropriate for the level of connection you are seeking. If what you are asking for is companionship with physical benefits and not a strong emotional connection, keep it light, fun, and playful. Be aware that if you DO start to cultivate feelings, that you have set the foundation as more of a friends-with-benefits. It would take time to change the energy between for something more serious,
If you are looking for marriage, ask your happily married friends to help you express your profile information. Be clear that you are looking for Mr./Ms. right to spend the rest of your life with, rather than the end goal of being married to whomever you find that comes reasonably close to what you want in a mate. If you are looking just to be married, with a lack of focus, you are likely to attract people that are unable to offer you what you really desire. Please be clear of your religious beliefs as well as that will help you to automatically rule out anyone that does not mesh spiritually. Please refrain from mentioning if you want kids, as you may find that you lose a lot of traffic to your profile.
Keep your kids and divorce out! You will have plenty of time to share this with someone. This is not the PTA, this is a dating profile. You are an eligible single ready for love, ready to date, and testing the waters of romance. There is plenty of time to talk about kids and to answer questions about previous marriages or pairings.
Do mention one thing that will make you stand out! I climbed K2 in 2016 or I have been riding horses since I was a child. Something that will show your personality.
Please be honest about your age.
NOW ONTO YOUR PICTURES:
Please refrain from:
Pictures with your kids
Photos with your guy/gal pals
Professional pictures with you in a suit or business attire
Your wedding picture with you in your tux or wedding gown (yes! it does happen!)
Pictures where you are showing too much skin. A little mystery is good!
Cheesy selfies in front of million-dollar cars or houses. (Do you want to be liked for you, or your possessions/money?)
Make a peace sign or looking like a player. Even if you ARE looking for a simple hook-up, it turns viewers off. (I have heard this countless times from you!)
Pictures older than 12 months. You want your date to recognize you when you meet!
Pictures that percolate!:
Wearing colors that bring out your vibrancy and your natural energy.
Have your picture professionally taken (if at all possible).
If you want to attract companionship and more of a physical connection full-body pictures are okay. If you want to attract a marital or long-term committed pairing, from the waist up.
Do show pictures of yourself with sunset and sunrises, and frame yourself romantically. Show them your inner radiance.
Less is more, light on the jewelry! Pick a statement piece to represent you.
Which is your best side? Yes, there is a difference! Make sure that you are photographing the side that is the most photogenic.
Smile with your eyes and you will look natural rather than posed with a fake smile.
Okay dear ones! Ready, set, date! You will find the romantic partners you attract give you a much better dating base,.
Thank you for this time together.
I love you and I believe in you.
In Divine Truth and Love,