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If you are a psychic or intuitive, the majority of your calls and readings will be positive and sincere individuals, open to what you see, feel, and sense. This is where I set my filters each day, but occasionally one slips through the shield.
When you are working with someone that is mentally ill, there is a tendency for them to bombard you with questions, asking only for "yes that is correct" or "no, it is not."
I have had clients that actually argue with what is being shared, being determined that above all THEY MUST BE RIGHT.
Over the years I have had clients with Dissociative identity disorder (DID), one of them having 12 different personas. They each had a different name, unique personality, and different careers, and ages. One in particular, had one personality pay for the reading, while a different identity did the reading. Each had their own list of concerns.
I have had one client with schizoaffective disorder, one that was rapid cycle bipolar, and some with grandiose delusions I have not counted the Narcissists yet, of which there have been many.
The key and most critical element here is to hold a firm boundary. Start and end your calls on time. There is the attempt to pull you into extra time. Let them know 5 minutes ahead of time when you session will expire. Add them to a list, and schedule them when you are feeling strong, fresh, and able to hold that healthy boundary. Do not be drawn into tales of woe and unhappiness, much of this they brought about on their own. More often than not, their reason for calling in pertains to being locked out of the lives of former friends, and family held hostage. Most certainly, they are off their medications!
Do not be drawn into their dramas or delusions, for there are many! She did this to me, or he did that, or I got fired over nothing! It is, of course, never their fault, they cannot help being the way they are, people just don't love them or want to understand them. You could just as easily be drawn into their circle of blame, shame, guilt, and "it was your fault for not telling me the truth!"
They come with their own agenda, so tread lightly, and answer only what they ask and no more.
DO send out unconditional love and ask for protection from your Guides, Angels, Guardians, Ancestors, and Allies.
Ask that they have protection from themselves as well, and that the people around them could find a way to forgive them, and offer support in the way that was healthiest for all concerned.
Please note, that if anyone gets abusive with you during a reading, that after a fair warning, you have the right to disconnect with no possibility of return. Be strong enough to make this decision when the circumstances call for it. If you are working for a Psychic business that does NOT have your back, stand your ground for the length of time purchased, and remember to not react negatively during the session. Do not give them anything that could be reported back in a negative way regarding the reading.
If you would like a name of companies that I would recommend working for, that do have their readers' backs, I am happy to relay this to you in a non-recorded phone call. There are legal issues that I must be mindful of in advising you.
It is based on direct feedback from actual experience from psychics that I know and have worked with. You would be surprised who tops the list!
I love my work and all of my clients, but when it comes to the challenges? It is a good exercise in holding a healthy boundary and offering real and unconditional love and empathy.
Remember that setting your intention each day helps to keep you grounded regardless of whom comes across your day.
Take each reading as it comes, then fully disconnect.
Thank you for sharing this time together.
I love you and I believe in you.
Remember, It's all about the LOVE.
In Divine Truth and Love,