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Why is the Universe saying NO when I want it so badly?

7/29/2015

Dear Oracle,
I want to have a baby very badly, I am not getting any younger. The man that I want to marry and have the child with says that he is going to get a divorce and he and I will have a child together. I am concerned because rather than move forward he is drinking more each day. Every time I talk to or see him, he has been drinking. He has reassured me that will stop when he is divorced and we are officially together. I want to be with him, and I want to believe that he WILL be clean and sober when we begin our lives together. I pray for this every day, why isn't it happening?
-Praying for resolution.

Dear PFR,
Thank you for your question. Alcoholism is a serious subject, especially when you are considering having a child with one. He will need some real support to stop drinking. Blaming it on his marriage and current wife is an excuse and a lack of accountability.

You are blessed that the NO is firmly in place, for you do not want to become the scapegoat as his next wife. He did not stop for his current wife, and the only motivation will come from him wanting to clean up his life.

Having a child with him, and being legally and genetically bound to him will be challenging unless he makes some serious life changes. Knowing that he does have an addiction and bringing a child into the world to an alcoholic father and an over compensating mother is not right in any event. Please do not enable him to continue this pattern of addiction. Having a dry house is advisable. When you are together, no drinking, not even a sip of wine or beer. Nothing. If he wants to be with you now or even later on when he may or may not get divorced, he does not drink or abuse any substance.

I would also look at why you were drawn to him. Perhaps there was addiction either known or unknown in your own family tree. You and he both have work to do to see why you were drawn together. Enablers and addicts are commonly drawn together and rarely with a happily ever after. Having a child with him would only make things worse.

The NOs you have been receiving are to get you to stop, think, and stand strong in what you know is the truth and right action. Your Angels and the Divine are looking out for you, Dear Heart. Your prayers are heard!

You deserve someone that is clean, sober, and free to be with you in all regards.

In Divine Love,
Razzi <3

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THE EGO TAKES CONTROL: THE BURNING OF ROME!

7/13/2015

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How many times has your EGO gotten in the way of loving compromise and clear sight?

Please don't bother counting, Dear Ones! It will be greater than you can remember, recall, or count.

When you want to know the truth of the matter (and I mean the TRUTH!), the answers you are seeking are all around you. If you want to know how you are doing, it is reflected in the friendships around you, the way that you being treated (are people generous or stingy with you?), and how you feel after an encounter or after being in situations.

When you know, for instance, that you behaved badly and that you owe somebody an apology (that you know may accept it, but not forget it), offer the apology. For the times when it is your turn to receive that apology, you increase the odds of receiving it.

Setting the ego aside also means seeing yourself realistically. I recall a moment in the last few months when I stepped on the scale only to discover that I had actually put on a little more weight that I had anticipated. Had I put my ego and fear aside, and stepped on the scale sooner, I would not have had the harsh wake up call that I did. I made immediate changes to my activity and the next time I weighed myself, I was down 10 pounds, and all due to simple changes. EGO kept me from seeing that I had slipped in taking care of myself. I am now back on track and the changes I needed to make are sticking.

I use the analogy of Rome for this article, for it was the EGO of the Caesars that caused the fall of Rome. There was a sense of complacency and a lack of humility. It is said that Caesar played music while Rome was burning to the ground. Even the fires did not wake him up!

Where are the fires in your life? What are you missing by letting your EGO lead? What are you doing to stay grounded, centered, awake, and aware of yourself and people that you love. Are you being a good steward with the Divine gifts that you are blessed to possess? Do you see yourself realistically, and listen to the feedback being offered to you?

Please don't swing the other way, and become a doormat either, Dear Ones! There is a healthy balance here.
Be committed to being the best version of yourself, and have your Divine requests be that of being shown where you are on your path. Be open to the answers around you. Every time that you procrastinate, ego and laziness enter. Every time that you do something on time or early, you achieve healthy balance (and often avoid the penalty!).

When EGO steps out of the way, the love and richness that you are meant to receive flows into your life with perfect Divine timing.

May you always walk in love,
Razzi <3

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Timelines: The Danger of Timelines in Psychic and Intuitive Readings.

7/6/2015

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The Garden Oracle Speaks
Question of the week:

"I am new to psychic and intuitive readings. I know that I am not supposed to ask for timelines, but I am not sure why. Can you please explain this to me?
-The Truth Seeker

Dear TTS,
Thank you for your question! I am so glad that you asked.

Timelines can change quickly. The more people that are involved, the greater the possibility that the outcome can, will, and does change.
For example: If you are asking a question in which 2 people are involved, from moment to moment with each decision each of those individuals makes, there is the possibility of 4 different outcomes per action.
If there are 10 people involved, it jumps up to 100 different outcomes per action or decision.

When you receive your reading, it is based on the situation and circumstances up to present time and if all involved stay on that path of events. If even one of those parties deviates, the timelines change dramatically.

You are very wise to see that asking for the best and highest good for all concerned invites the wisest and most healing solutions and realities.

Pushing in a reading for timelines, while there will be an outcome revealed, it can change so quickly that it can lead to a disappointment and unhappiness.

Be your personal best each day, act ethically, be kind, and live to your greatest potential. That is how you can ensure the most positive outcomes in your life.

Within the Psychic Reading community, a significant portion of those seeking readings and asking about timelines are looking for a scapegoat rather than being accountable for the way their lives are going.
Psychic Scapegoating is a common issue with even the most gifted readers. I have been reading for over 40 years and stand by the information given to me by my Guides, Angels, Divine, and Ancestors. When my clients call and ask to be shown or to hear the messages from Spirit, they are surely on the right path. They take this information, and act with Wisdom, thus creating the best results for their lives.

Life is not black and white, nor are Psychic Readings. There are many shades and hues to this Universe.
Seize the day, Dear One, and be open to the myriad of healing possibilities that exist simultaneously from moment-to-moment.

Thank you again for your outstanding question. I appreciate you.

Blessings to you on your Path,
Razzi <3

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Why is the Universe saying NO when I want it so badly?

THE EGO TAKES CONTROL: THE BURNING OF ROME!

Timelines: The Danger of Timelines in Psychic and Intuitive Readings.

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